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Monday, 1 January 2024

Meaningful songs #22 - GARBAGE

This is the twenty-second in an occasional series of songs from my collection, with the intent of introducing music to younger readers that they may gain appreciation of music from the classic years, 1957-1990. (Though I admit this exception is from 1995)

I have lived long enough to hear the "popular" music industry become ever-more formulaic, lazy, uninspiring and cynical; delivering "units" and "artistes" as interesting and memorable as polished mud.

Meaningful songs that eloquently convey a story, sentiment, or social comment and make it to national consciousness are rare these days. If you agree this song is meaningful, please introduce it to someone young; they might enjoy becoming "musical archaeologists".

Todays song, titled "Stupid Girl", released in 1995, is by a group called GARBAGE.


Garbage but not garbage 


Hear the song here and greater live version here

Stupid Girl is a dynamic song that talks to millions of girls/young woman who (only) want celebrity, money, attention and "media" acclaim, in the laziest of ways, often with great cynicism and distain for any inferiors who do not holiday several times a year (for the "look at me" media photographs), nor drive "top motors" or lavish upon themselves such fripperies as branded handbags, shoes, clothes, enough make-up to fill a well and, don't forget, the trophy pet(s).

A "Stupid Girl" thinks nothing of exploitation of others or alienation from family or (former) friends, such is her desire or emotional need to be continually centre-stage, to be continually catered and paid for; her partner must be wealthy and prepared to fund a desired life-style, for she will neither have the means nor inclination to fund herself, for there is no career for a stupid girl, no planning (as opposed to scheming and manipulating), nothing but neediness and narcissism behind the glamorous façade of a parasitic relationship.

Perhaps though, a "Stupid Girl" is a clever girl after all, for what she wants is provided unstintingly; but history tends to show that trophy girls get dumped with age and wrinkles, then life thereafter can become uncomfortable indeed - no career, no real income/money, few true friends, few life skills and social ineptitude when no-longer amongst the "kiss-kiss" crowd, then realisation that many "real" women are laughing behind their back . Better to be a smart woman than a stupid girl I think. Better to be less narcissistic.

The full story of Garbage and Stupid Girl is told here.


STUPID GIRL
    
Pretend you're high
Pretend you're bored
Pretend you're anything
Just to be adored
And what you need
Is what you get

You don't believe in fear
You don't believe in faith
You don't believe in anything
That you can't break

Stupid girl
Stupid girl
All you had you wasted
Can't believe you faked it

What drives you on
Can drive you mad 
A million lies to sell yourself
Is all you ever had

You don't believe in love
You don't believe in hate
You don't believe in anything
That you can't break

Stupid girl
Stupid girl
All you had you wasted
I can't believe you fake it

You don't believe in fear
Don't believe in pain
And don't believe in anyone
That you can't tame

Stupid girl
Stupid girl
All you had you wasted
I can't believe you faked it

You stupid girl
You stupid girl
All you had you wasted
I can't believe you faked it

Stupid girl
Stupid girl
Can't believe you fake it
And all you had you wasted
 
Stupid girl!




I was on a bit of a rant above, but when you know an aspiring "it girl" there are occasions when you want to say, "It's good now but the cost may be life-long".


I just wanna be an "it girl",
hiding neediness behind a glamorous façade


P.S. Selfies seem to be declining and "good looks" are seemingly not valued that much.

P.P.S. What do you think of this?

FINAL THOUGHT: In 1969 Peter Sarstedt released a single that wistfully spoke about another "Stupid Girl" (who possibly left him?), not in savage terms as Garbage did, but as a reminder that pursuing a wanton social/wealth climbing lifestyle has consequences; one being insecurity about the women's true background being discovered. That song is Where Do You Go To My Lovely? and The Monkees performed s song expressing their intention that they would not be a stepping stone for an "it girl".

If you ever wish to escape a narcistic partner, play them this song.

Read the next article in the series or hear the next song in the series.

For the index of all songs in this blog click here.

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